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OK. You’ve cleared the dining room table and have ticked off “clean silverware” and “organize the kitchen” on your holiday prep checklist. Good on you for being prepared and all set to tackle the large gatherings and meals that take place during this festive, but busy, time of year.

Ready for the next step? It’s time to learn to how to set your table for special occasions like holiday meals or dinner parties. Even knowing how to set a simple table for your daily family dinner can add a special touch to mealtimes.

The following instructions can teach you how to set a table for dinner.

Step-by-Step Instructions

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    Step 1
    Dinner Plate

    Place a dinner plate down. If you’re starting with a salad, place the salad plate on top of your dinner plate.

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    Step 2
    Silverware Arrangement

    Arrange the silverware. Start with the dinner fork on the left of the plate and the salad fork to the left of the dinner fork. Not having salad for dinner? Skip that fork.

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    Step 3
    Knife Arrangement

    Next, place the dinner knife to the immediate right of the plate with the blade facing inward, followed by the spoon.

    Tip: Here’s a handy trick for figuring out how to lay silverware out: Work in alphabetical order from left to right! Fork. Knife. Spoon.

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    Step 4
    Drinking Glass

    Set the drinking glass above the dinner knife, at about 1 o’clock.

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    Step 5
    Bread Plate

    Place the bread plate above your fork at 11 o’clock. If you’d like, you can place a butter spreader on top of the bread plate, but this is optional. Arrange the spreader with the handle on the right and the blade facing down toward the plate, either horizontally or diagonally.

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    Step 6
    Napkin

    Fold your napkin and place it to the left of the forks, under the forks or in the center of the plate itself.

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